Na Koi H Na Koi Tha Zindgi Mein Tumare Siva -Indu

Hello friends, my name is Indu and aaj me apse mere pyar mere sacche pyar ki kahani share kr rhi hu.

     Ye 2011 ki baat h,me mere nanihal(behror,dist.-Alwar Rajasthan)me rahkar padhai kr rahi thi. Us waqt me B.A.final year ki student thi.Me study me beginning se hi achi thi aur meri family ko bhi mujhse bahot expectations thi. me 1 aisi ladki thi jisne kabhi apni study or carrier ke alawa kuch soch a hi nahi tha pr kismat ko shayad kuch aur hi manzur tha.
31dec.2010 ko mere nanaji k mobile k liye hamne new sim li thi(mere pas personal cell nhi tha) jab humne sim li to usi din raat me ek call aaya kisi ladke ne bola ki mujhe Bharat se baat krni h main ne kaha hum kisi Bharat ko nhi jante wrong no h. aur phone cut kr diya. uske baad to daily din me 3-4 baar call aane lage kabhi uski (Bharat ki) bhabhi kabhi sis to kabhi frnd me to call receive krte krte pareshan ho gayi,, mere nanaji ko dikhai nhi deta so sabhi calls me hi attend krti thi.Roz itne wrong no aate ki Jhalawar me Bharat se baat krni maine mere bhaiya aur family ko b ye baat batai kabhi kabhi to bhaiya phone pe unko daant b dete the.Isi tarah ek mahina beet gaya suddenly 1din shaam ko jab me t.v. dekh rhi thi to 1 call aaya mene pucha kon? Toh udhar se avaz aayi ji me Bharat bol raha hu. Unke itna bolte hi mera temper high ho gaya ki yahi vo ladka h jiske vzah se itni problem ho rahi h. Maine unhe kaha aap h kon aur itne dino se apke relative s n friends hume kyu phone krke pareshan kr rhe h? to unhone politely ans diya ki actually meri sim kisi reason se comp ne block kr di h aur maine gusse me aake us sim ko tod diya but mere sare saved no.b usme ab me 1 month se kisi ko call nhi ki h meri family bahut tension me hogi me Jhalawar me job krta hu basically M.P. se hu to plz meri help kr dijiye agar kisi ka call aaye apke paas to mujhe no.bata dijiyega me save krke baat kr lunga. Unki avaz me itni sachai thi ki me apne apko unki help krne se rok nahi payi  phir jab koi call aati to me unko sms ya call krkr bata deti pr baat nhi krti thi.2-3din baad jab me college se ghar pe aayi to unka phone aaya unhone mera naam pucha main e bola apko kya kaam h toh unhone bola aap meri itni help kr rahi h to naam b bata dijiye to maine naam bata kr kah diya ki aap call mat kiya kijiye agar apke liye koi call ayegi to me khud apko bta dungi unhonne kha me apse 1 baat puchu aap bura mat manana plz mene kaha puchiye to  unhone kaha kya aap mujhse frndship karogi? 

Main ne saaf mana kr diya qk me ladko se dosti nhi krti aur meri family me b kisi ko pasand nhi tab unhone kaha ki shayad Uper wala b hamari dosti krvana chahte h isiliye unhone apke paas mera no.bheja h aur dosti krne me galat kya h vaise to mene b kbhi kisi ladki se dosti nhi ki pr aap pahle ho jo ajnabi hoke b meri help kr rhe ho so if u dont mind mujhe miss call kr dena agar aap dosti krna chahte ho to. Me bahut der tak soch ti rhi phir maine mana kr diya pr me use no.jarur bata deti thi. Is tarah dheere dheere ham friend ban gaye ab to vo mujhe din me kabhi b phone kr lete the vo phone me hi pic k krti thi. phir 12 feb ko suddenly unhone mujhe propose kr diya me to ekdum hairaan rh gayi aaj tak kbhi kisi ne mujhe yeh nhi bola tha mene mana kr diya to unhonne kaha 14feb ko soch k reply kriyo pr mene saaf mana kr diya aur kaha ki ham sirf dost h aur dost hi rahnge tab unhone sorry bola aur kha ki plz aap bura mat manana dil me aaya so bol diya uske baad hum pehle ki tarah baat krne lage roz raat ko hum der tak baatein krte ek dusre ki likes dislike s study friends k bare me kab 12- 1baj jate pata hi nhi chata tha hum dono ko ek dusre ka sath baatein bahut achi lagne lagi thi sab kuchh sahi chal raha tha pr ek din bhaiya ko pata lag gaya aur unhone no.change kr diya aur kaha ki ab tu us ladke se kabhi baat nhi karegi varna accha nhi hoga me mere gharwalon ki bahut respect krti thi so mene socha thik h nhi krungi vaise b vo mrre sirf dost hi to h.

But I did n’t know ki mujhe h shayad unse pyar ho gaya tha. Maine kai din unhe call nhi kiya pr mera khi man nahi lagta tha even padhai me b nhi me unke bare me hi sochti rahti thi hr pal bas unse baat krne ka dil krta to 1 din mene phone laga diya avaz sunte hi wo mujhe pahchan gaye aur phir no.k bare me pucha to maine unse kha ki bhai ne apse baat krne se mana kiya h aur sim change kr di h Maine sirf apka haal chal puchne k liye call kiya h pr shayad baat kuch aur thi.ab me hi unhe call krti unko mana kr diya tha qk bhai ko pata lag jata.ab humein baat krte 9-10 month ho gaye the aur me b unse bahut pyaar krne lagi thi wo b krte the pr mere mana krne k baad kahte nhi the . Finally mene apne pyaar ka izhaar krne ka faisla liya aur ek din jab ghar pe koi nhi tha to maine unhe phone krke kaha ki me apse kuch kahna chahti hu us waqt meri condition dekhne layak thi me bahut ghabra rhi thi pr mene ankhe band ki aur bola I love u kuch der tak khamoshi cha gayi phir unhone khush hote hue pucha sacchi? Mujhe kabhi chhod kr to nhi jaogi na mene bola nhi aur hum dono bahut khush hue qk wo hamari life ka sabse haseen pal tha aisa lag raha tha ki me udne lag jau me nachne lagi thi phir humne call cut kr di kabhi koi aa na jaye so. Us din me sabse jyaada khush thi mene tv on kiya to wo gaana chal rha tha zindagi ne di hawa thoda sa dhuaan utha or aag jal gayi teri meri dosti pyar me badal gayi I thought ye gaana hamare hi liye baj rha h. 

Bas phir kya tha hum dono ne apni nayi zindagi k sapne sanjone shuru kr diye yahaan tak ki abhi tak humne ek dusre ko ek baar b nhi dekha tha pr hume ek dusre k upar pura trust tha kabhi kabhi wo mujhse kahte Indu agar me tujhe pasand nhi aaunga to tune abhi se mujhse shaadi krne ka faisla kaise kr liya at least ek baar mujhe dekh to le mene pure vishwas se kahti ki mere liye surat se jyada seerat mayane rkhti h aor mera dil khta h ki aap sacche ho imaandar ho so me apse hamesha itna hi pyar karungi chahe aap kaise b dikhte ho. Wo b mujhse yahi kahte hamari life  bahut achi chal rhi thi pr suddenly phir se mere mamaji ko pata lag gaya aur unhonne mujhe kasam di ki me unse life me kabhi b baat nhi karungi vrna wo unke against police complaint kr denge unki puri life spoil ho jayegi me bahut dar gayi thi me apni vajah se unki life spoil nhi hone de sakti thi so mene mamaji ki baat maan li pr kahte h na ki dil pe kisiki jor nhi chalta. me unke pyaar me itni diwani ho chuki thi ki Maine sari kasame tod kr kuch dino baad unhe phone laga hi diya wo b bahut pareshan the mere liye ki pata nhi mere gharwale mere sath kaisa salook krenge pr maine unse kaha ki aap chinta mat kijiye me thik hu aur aap b apna khayal rakhyiega. Ab hum 2-3 din me ek baar hi baat kr pate the qk mere paas mobile nhi rhta tha bhai aur mamaji sab bahut dhyaan rkte the ki kahi me phone nhi le lu . Me chup chup ke kabhi kisi k phone se unhe call krti thaur jaldi hi cut kr deti thi. Isi beech bhai ki shaadi thi aur maine unhe b shaadi me invite kiya qk vaise to hum kabhi ek dusre ko nhi dekh pate qk wo Jhalawar me the aur me Alwar dist k chote se gaanv me. Gharwalo ne b.ed. k liye b mujhe college nhi jane diya ghar se hi b.ed. krti thi mamaji ki pachan ki college thi so.

Shaadi paas k hi town me thi mene chupke se unhe address msg kr diya tha aur wo itni dur aa b gaye the shaadi me unhone mujhe dekhte hi pahchan liya tha me us din itni khush thi ki me bayaan nhi kr skti me bahut ache se tyar hui thi us din na jane kyu tyar hote time bas yahi gaana dil me aa raha tha sajana h mujhe Sajna k liye. Me dulhan k ghar k bahar hi unse mili maine unko dekha to me itni sharma gayi ki meri nazare upar hi nhi uth rahi thi unhone shake hand krne k liye hath aage badhaya to mene darte darte apna hath unke hath me diya us pal mujhe aisa lag raha tha mano puri life wo mera hath yun hi pakde rakhe pr shaadi ka ghar tha to mene jaldise apna hath khinch liya ki kahin koi dekh na le . Ek taraf me dar rhi thi to dusre taraf khush b thi ki hum dono aaj pehli baar mile the vaise to humne pehle hi ek dusre se shaadi ka faisla kr liya tha.thodi der tak baat krne k baad me ander chali gayi aur wo b vapas chale gaye thoda der baad unka msg aaya I love u Indu tum bahut khubsurat ho.

 I was very happy that day. Phir do din baad hamari phone pe baat hui wo b bahut khush lag rhe the humne kaafi baatein ki aur ye b ki gharwalo ko shaadi k liye kaise manaya jaye .Sabse badi problem ye ki wo rajput aur hum yadav the meri family kabhi b is intercast relation k liye nhi manege mujhe ye baat pata thi pr phir b hum dono ne haar nhi mani aur decide kiya ki shaadi karenge to ek dusre se varna kisise nhi.Ab hume baat krte hue 2 saal beet chukr the is beech ham 1 bar aur mile the pr sirf 5 minutes k liye jab mera rtet ka paper tha Alwar me us din wo mujhse milne k liye Churu se aaye the but qk paper tha aur college me itni bheed thi to hum sirf 5 minutes hi baat kr sake phir bhai mujhe lene gate pe aa gaye the. Us din unhone apni 1 passport size photo b mujhe di thi qk bhai ki shaadi me unhone mujhse meri photo li thi. Phir me bhai k sath vapas aa gai aur wo b chale gaye sirf 5 minutes k liye wo mujhse milne itna dur aaye mujhe ye baat bahut achi lagi.
Sab acha chal raha tha pr ek bar phir hamare gharwalo ko pata lag gaya ki me abhi b unse baat krti hu is baar to jaise hum pr kahar hi tut pada….
Aage ki story phir kabhi friends.....

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